Are These Recruiters Reaching Out Because I’m Good, or a Diversity Fix?
Pandemic headhunting is boosting my ego at the same pace as it’s boosting my doubts
Work
Some Non-Negotiable Rules for Reopening the Office
Demands? Nah. But if you want me back at a desk, call them ‘action items.’
Having an Office Wife Is Disrespectful to Your Spouse
It’s all fun and games until somebody catches feelings
When Mixing Colleagues and Friends Goes Nightmarishly Wrong
How a night out became a cautionary tale about keeping the two worlds separate
6 Zoom Activities Least Likely to Get You Fired, Ranked
You reading, Jeffrey Toobin?
Dear Co-Workers, Please Don’t Follow Me on Social Media
It’s not you, it’s me
Don't Be Insecure About Making Less Money Than Your Partner
For many men, this results in shame. It shouldn’t.
I Learned That My Co-Worker Is Full MAGA, and Now I Can’t Unsee It
That awkward moment when office politics takes a turn for the worse
WFH Has Turned Me Into a Morning Person
Rise and shine!
I Miss Office Fantasy Football, but Not Enough to End My NFL Boycott
Fantasy football season is back at my job, and I hate it here
TI at 40: Candor, Slander, and Hunting for a Battle With 50 Cent
Turning 40 doesn’t mean you retire — it means you’ve got nothing left to prove
In 2020, My Zoom Background Says Everything I’m Thinking
Virtual surroundings can communicate a lot without speaking a word.
Please Stop Sending Me ‘I Hope You’re Well’ Emails — I’m Not
Most of us aren’t. Here are some 2020-appropriate alternative greetings.
Recession PTSD Has Returned
I lived through this in 2008. Now I’m living through it again — and so are…
When Co-Workers of Color Cosplay as Allies
My company’s diversity committee is pushing forward to make positive change — but not without posers disturbing the process
From The Sales Floor to the Office: An Open Letter to My Younger Professional Self
Things you learn after years of being a token in the workplace
I’m Not Your Poster Child for Workplace Diversity
Why won’t companies quit slapping a Band-Aid on things and make some actual meaningful changes?
I’m No Longer Using My White Voice at Work
Sorry to bother you with this latest 2020 self-discovery
Talking Politics With Co-Workers? File That Under ‘Never’
I don’t have the bandwidth to handle your…
Confessions of an Internet-Famous Cheater
When I betrayed my fiancée, I destroyed my relationship. But the shadow stretches over the rest of my life as well.
The 6 Best Ways to Spend Your Time Off While Socially Distancing, Ranked
Don’t let those vacation days go to waste
Why I Stopped Feeling Guilty About Taking Time Off
I traded my ‘no days off’ mentality for PTO and peace of mind
Office Relationships Are Too Damn Messy
Getting dragged into my co-workers’ dating drama is confirmation that workplace romance isn’t worth the trouble
Why I’m Skeptical About Joining My Company’s Diversity Committee
Sure, I want to help voice our race-related concerns, but am I playing myself?
What Happens When Your White Coworkers Discover Your Side Hustle
Sure, I got promoted — but it wasn’t the career advancement I’d anticipated
It’s All Fun and Games Till A White Person Asks to Fondle Your Fro
When workplace morale-boosting activities go from innocent fun to inclusion fail
My Ex-Bosses Are Scrambling to Not Get Canceled
Amid a widespread workplace reckoning, their apologies seem disingenuous and borne of White guilt
Can Sex Work Help Ease The Recession For Men?
Whether OnlyFans or other services, men are finding that…
The Weight of White Guilt in the Workplace Is Too Damn Heavy
My coworkers — bless their hearts — are making a tough time even worse
Office Allies Can’t Cushion the Blow of Yet Another Black Murder
You’ll have to forgive me if I don’t have the strength to walk non-Black work allies through my trauma